Prince charming :)

We grow in a patriarchal, mainly heterosexual society. Our role models from early childhood are our parents, at least for most of us, and we tend to look for a half to make our lives full(though i don't know full of what?!). For girls that half is a disguise of prince charming. Yep, like it or not every girl is that little princess that awaits her prince to give her the enchanted kiss and sweep her of her feet. Cute, hm? Of course that guy has to be handsome (even if sometimes is only our imagination), powerfull and not the last- loving. Is he a brunet IT guy, an architect, a waiter, a boheme artist, a smart doctor, a shy sailorman, an engineer with a sense of humor or that boy with long eyelashes ? WHO is he? How do you know he's the right guy? Do the butterfly effect need interfere? Anyway it's not like he needs to rescue you from a morbid castle(which is more of a humble hostel:), you just need to feel a click. The mechanism that turns on the flame is harder to encounter- does it have to envolve brains, muscles, joking, playing, money or only a sparkle? A flame that makes you stay awake in night time, get up very early in the morning just to send a sms or grow your hair a certain way?! I would like it to be easier, but the process of selecting prince charming is not so simple. I sometimes think that the concept of "prince charming" is overrated- can't i setle for anyguy that appears at my front door with flowers, no matter his IQ or career outcome? He may change on the road anyway. But I guess the answer is no. I need my prince charming, to feel the fever of love in my stomach- it's not enough for him to do his best or say he loves you. No, for certain that's not what it takes to crown him your "prince charming". Chemistry counts! Did I find my prince? I hope not, cause it would be sad to know I drove him away!:(